Since childhood....I've always preferred to be 'alone', rather than in groups...especially, loud, attention-craving groups....

According to psychological research, people who genuinely enjoy solitude are often perceived as more loyal and faithful because their relationships are built on intentional choice rather than a fear of being alone. Because they find peace in their own company, they do not rely on others for constant external validation or to escape loneliness.

To elaborate, individuals who value solitude tend to maintain smaller, more concentrated social circles. They invest heavily in a few meaningful connections rather than spreading themselves thin across many superficial ones.

Since their self-esteem is often internally derived, they are less likely to seek attention or approval from outside sources, which reduces the temptation to stray for ego-boosting purposes such as sex, shopping and smelling oven-fresh cookies. Comfort with solitude is often a sign of emotional maturity and self-regulation. These individuals are better at managing their own emotions and are less likely to stay in or enter relationships for the “wrong reasons”, such as co-dependency.

Spending time in reflection also helps these individuals develop a clear understanding of their values and limits. They are more likely to respect a partner’s boundaries because they deeply value their own. Studies in personality psychology have lined a preference for solitude with higher emotional regulation and lower impulsivity, both of which are strong predictors of relationship loyalty and faithfulness.